The Golden Rat Trap - Staying in the Rat Race
We rat racers would like more time, freedom, and choice in our lives. But even while most of us will at least privately admit we are not doing all that we thought was possible with our potential... most of us all hold very fast to the status quo (a large part of which is our 9-to-5 job). I use 9-to-5 loosely here... a lot of us work a lot longer hours.
We seem to feel more at home holding to what is probable, versus what is possible.
The great American philosopher Henry Thoreau (1817-1862) once said:
"The mass of men live lives of quiet desperation... enduring, waiting to find out what their lives are about."

So what is the golden rat trap?
You can consider it a play on a common term in the rat race - "The Golden Parachute". The golden parachute is a concept that describes top corporate executives being dismissed, even after less than stellar performances, with huge windfalls in severance pay, stock options, and other benefits.
Consider, for example, a recent CEO of Home Depot, who departed with a severance package of about $210 million. Or a Merrill Lynch CEO who pocketed $160 million as his golden parachute (after losing the company $8 billion). Not bad!
The golden parachute epitomizes a paradox - a CEO runs a company into the ground (bad), and yet leaves with way more money than makes sense by most measures (good - at least for him).
The golden rat trap is a similar paradox - - We have to spend about 10 hours a day rat racing it
- Battling office politics,
- Doing work that we may or may not be passionate about,
- Spending almost half of our day, and most of our hours awake, with co-workers rather than family,
(all this is the bad..)
In exchange, we get paid to maintain a certain lifestyle. House, car, and "stuff". As we get promoted up the rat race ladder, we buy bigger cars, bigger houses, and more stuff.
And at the end of it all, we hope that we have amassed enough stuff for our kids to inherit. So that they can have a head start on the collection of stuff
Sure, it's a rat trap, but at least it's golden! :)
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What Keeps Us In the Golden Rat Trap?
1. Expectations:
Expectations are one of the strongest motivators for the career choices that we start out with. What do my parents envision me being? What about the other authority figures in my life? The other people I respect?
This often starts way before graduation - it starts back when you're selecting classes to take. With an education system that steers kids towards the "hot" careers of the moment, very little emphasis is placed on helping kids find out what they are passionate about, and then presenting them with career alternatives that allow them to grow within their area of interest
We carry the weight of expectations not only into our career choices, but even into our other major life choices as well. There are a few excellent books on this topic by Barbara Sher, one noteworthy title being "I Could Do Anything, If Only I Knew What It Was." Many of us realize we aren't pursuing our fullest life later in life, and change course. Probably a greater number still never come to this realization at all. Or if they do, they bury the discovery and continue to "endure" their current existence. Expectations prolong our resistance to change. "What would people think?" I know from first-hand experience. It doesn't pay to live to please others.
Net - if what you want to do isn't a typical 9-to-5 job, take heart. Go out and learn about yourself. Find out where your passion is. And boldly dump the prestige of the 9-to-5 job. You've only one life to live...
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2. Retirement Benefits:
A retirement basically provides income after one has retired from employment. Some plans guarantee a certain payout at retirement (based on salary and the number of years), while others provide a payout dependent on the amount of money contributed and the performance of the investment vehicles utilized.
Typical retirement plans in the U.S.A. include: - Traditional Individual Retirement Accounts (IRAs) (you can invest up to about $5,000 a year, pre-tax), and
- 401(k) plans (you can invest up to about $15,500 a year).
- Roth 401(k) plans (you can save taxed income and withdraw earnings tax-free)
- Roth IRAs (you can save taxed income and withdraw earnings tax-free)
Here's a good article on retirement plans, on bankrate.com.
Many corporations provide matching funds up to a certain point... making it beneficial for employees to join their company's retirement pan. I fully encourage this.
It is good, sound planning to save and invest for the future. However, I caution against feeling tied to corporate employment justs so you don't miss out on these matching funds. I'm not a financial planner, so I can't give financial advice. I would simply ask you to consider that retirement plans can be set up even outside corporate employers. And, setting up various passive income streams (outside of corporate employment) can provide you with a more robust income well into your retirement years.
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3. Stock Options:
A number of companies provide stock option benefits for many of their employees. This is an additional benefit that corporations provide, that again I would encourage you to take advantage of. If you have the opportunity.
Ultimately though, this on its own should not be the single reason that keeps you tied to a corporate employment, if that job is not your true calling. Time waits for no one - you can't afford to take your time about pursuing what matters most to you. Time isn't guaranteed for any of us.
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4. Insurance:
Health insurance - medical, dental, and ocular, is a HUGE benefit for corporate employees. It shouldn't be understated at all. A large number of people (both in and outside the rat race) are uninsured for various reasons. Being uninsured is risky, particularly due to the astronomical costs of emergency health care.
Having said that, there are reasonably affordable insurance options that are available, outside of corporate employer plans.
Which of these is keeping you in the golden rat trap?
So here's a fun look at what might be keeping you, internally, tied to the rat race: Who is your Rat Race Pied Piper?
Do any of those feel vaguely familiar? Share your own stories about what is keeping you in the rat race.
Now that you've determined your true calling, that is, where you want to go...
And you've examined the forces that may be keeping you in the status quo,
Let's take a look at some goal setting milestones.
Using the metaphor of our escape from the rat race being a road trip of sorts...
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